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| Rejection, you are no ladies man Darkath |
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Kazebari
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| Hamese wrote: | This is SIMPLE.
If you like this girl more than the movie you will. Cancel going to the show and setup a time that you could go with all four. If the sister doesn't want to go..... kidnap her and only release her after watching the movie with Liz.  |
Or even better, convert to a Mormon and date her AND her sister. And ask Sully if you can borrow Maebelle. (Nothing gets the chicks hot under the collar like Maebelle  )
Darkath:
it's just coincidence.
Unless Lizzy doesn't even HAVE a sister. then it's rejection. |
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Mike
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 3:30 pm Post subject: |
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its just a coincidence,
but mine wasent today
i was at lunch and this kid talkin to the girl i like then he siad to me ask her out so i said ok then this other kid asked her if would i would ever go out with her and she said prolly not and then my freind asked her if she liked me and she said no.
but the part im confused with is:
y would the kid tell me right infront of her to ask her out w/o me tellin him i liked her and he was talkin to her so that musta ment she liked me but i guess not.
and b4 she invited me to a party and she hand picked the seats and put me right next to her and she asked me who my friends were and she put em to the other side of me
and all of her friends were telling me to ask her and they like were a good couple n stuff
now im realy  and  and 
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Speaker's Xeno
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 3:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Mike Hunt wrote: | its just a coincidence,
but mine wasent today
i was at lunch and this kid talkin to the girl i like then he siad to me ask her out so i said ok then this other kid asked her if would i would ever go out with her and she said prolly not and then my freind asked her if she liked me and she said no.
but the part im confused with is:
y would the kid tell me right infront of her to ask her out w/o me tellin him i liked her and he was talkin to her so that musta ment she liked me but i guess not.
and b4 she invited me to a party and she hand picked the seats and put me right next to her and she asked me who my friends were and she put em to the other side of me
and all of her friends were telling me to ask her and they like were a good couple n stuff
now im realy and and |
what i think happened to u was she was just shy of her feelings. i think she likes u but didnt want to admit it infront of a lot of people who to her might have been making fun of it or just being jerks..i say this cause it happened to me. i had a bunch of friends tell me to ask her out and they didnt know i liked her then when they asked her if she liked me in public she got shy and said no but later on i came up to her and asked her out and she said yes.
so what i mean to say is that men will never understand women. dont try and ull be happy but also both of u guys just take a chance if it doesnt work out then at least u tried but if it does then ull be really happy u went for it. pain is temporary but happiness is 4ever.(where do i come up wit this stuff  )
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Mike
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Speaker for the Dead wrote: |
what i think happened to u was she was just shy of her feelings. i think she likes u but didnt want to admit it infront of a lot of people who to her might have been making fun of it or just being jerks..i say this cause it happened to me. i had a bunch of friends tell me to ask her out and they didnt know i liked her then when they asked her if she liked me in public she got shy and said no but later on i came up to her and asked her out and she said yes.
so what i mean to say is that men will never understand women. dont try and ull be happy but also both of u guys just take a chance if it doesnt work out then at least u tried but if it does then ull be really happy u went for it. pain is temporary but happiness is 4ever.(where do i come up wit this stuff ) |
thats wat i was thinking but there wasent much for her to be fraid about cuz her freinds wanted us to go out, but then again there were a buncha other people there so she might of got scared
ill see how it goes
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Vicoden
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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| Whatever you do, don't let her see or know that it bothers you. She will think your over-bearing and that you don't trust her. Save that for when your going steady Just forget it happened and TRUST her that she is telling the truth. If anything it sounds like its her sister that doesn't like you (and your friends). And I am willing to bet this girl really likes you and was excited to go. Then told her sister all about it and her sister threw down a test to see what she would do and see if she would pick her over you......but thats just a rambling hunch. |
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Darkath
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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| SilverOne wrote: | | To me, it doesn't seem like she rejected you. Don't worry about it, and don't show her that it bothers you either. Because if you show it really upset you, that can lead to problems especially if this deals with her sister. That can instantly turn her off. |
Would have been nice to read that before I went back to school today!  I went to school a little down in the dumps, and she found me during lunch. She was nagging me about wut wuz wrong (I did show it a little), and I didn't tell her, but then we started talking about LOTR, and I felt a little better. As it turns out, she and her sister have been doing the whole 'going together' thing ever since Fellowship of the Ring came out, so it made me feel like a heavy burden (like the Ring of Power  ) was lifted from my shoulders.
Thanks for the advice ladies and gents, keep it coming if you have something else to say
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Vicoden
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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| You could always go Gay.....it worked for Mulisha |
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Warhammer
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Darkath wrote: | | she found me during lunch. She was nagging me about wut wuz wrong |
To me, that's the #1 sign that she's interested. A girl who goes out of her way to talk to you is very likely to be attracted to you, or at least wants to get to know you.
On the other hand, a girl ignoring you can mean one of two things:
1) She has no interest in you whatsoever (duh)
2) She likes you, but doesn't want to come off as being too outgoing to strangers (this happens a LOT more than guys know). If this happens to you, don't be discouraged if she is shy and has trouble making conversation with you.. just find some common denominator and she should warm up!
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Kazebari
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Stop worrying about girls and go get a job :/ |
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Speaker's Xeno
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| Posted: Fri Dec 19, 2003 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Kazebari wrote: | | Stop worrying about girls and go get a job :/ |
wait u mean u can get a girl without a job  then how do u pay for all the dates
edit: yeah for the post earlier i made about what happened to me a little insider info it was my first crush so thing about how much my heart got stepped on b4 they gracely put it to rest 
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