Does age matter that much?

Vicoden · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 6:05 pm Post subject: Does age matter that much?

So anyway, I haven't had a steady g/f for like a year now and I just started seeing this really great woman. She's really pretty, has her own business, loves to laugh and has a great personality........but she's 38 and I'm 26, a very young looking 26, but she's a very young looking 38. Anyway we have a great time together and it hasn't gotten too serious yet. But...if it keeps going good, its likely that it will turn serious.

I guess to me it doensn't really matter that much, just alittle. I mean 12 years is a big difference!! My parents just want me to be happy, so that advice doesn't really help any. The thing is....how many more years of fun can she have in her yet ( I know that sounds odd) What I mean is I still have at least 20 years of feeling invincible and being able to do pretty much anything I want. I am just afraid that when her life starts slowing down I am 12 years behind that happening for me....catch my drift?

I know Demi Moore and Ashtun have something similar, but thats Hollywood, we all know it won't last....And I don't really think they care.

Blown · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 6:07 pm Post subject:

At those ages, I dont think it matters.

Potato-VS- · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 6:40 pm Post subject:

I dont believe that it really matters. If your younger - your something like 16 and shes 13 then its matters or if your older and shes olders (same principal). All that really matters is if you agree and "click" with each other. Thats the only thing. Theirs nothing wrong with having someone whos younger than you as a gf or wife. Or someone whos older. If things are going steady, like you said, then it shouldn't even really be an issue.

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Replica · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 6:51 pm Post subject:

i've said ti before ( not necessarily here) and i'll say it again, age only matters if you are young, after 18 screw it. but if its before 18.... dont' screw it ( or you will go to jail!!!! omg !!!)
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My mum has a friend who is 50 and is married to someone who is 35. They first got together when he was just 21 - everyone asked her if she was out of her mind... obviously she wasn't.

If it's good for the two of you, then go for it.

[HALO]cpt._Keyes · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 7:42 pm Post subject:

hmmm...mines a little older....she is 19...im 17.....hmmm...does the law work in that direction?
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Paddyjack · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 7:55 pm Post subject:

I asked myself the same question not so long ago, though in this case I was the oldest of 10 years.

The answer is simple: if it is ok for both of you, it is good.
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GellyRoll · Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2003 9:31 pm Post subject:

haha i went out with someone that was 17 im 14 thatsz not right he didn't tell me i think in this case your fine.
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Potato-VS- · Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2003 7:06 am Post subject:

Itd be even scarier if it was a 30 yo and you gelly (potato cant believe that people use to do that in the 'ld days)

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FragFailure · Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2003 7:50 am Post subject:

I'd say after 25 everything kinda levels off. After that it's pretty much a number and much more based on maturity of the person. I know a woman back in Chicago who is 36. She still thinks she's 15 and I just call her H.M. (which stands for high maintainence.) I know some 21 year olds that are more mature than their age. The problem is that it's usually children that seem to mature women more.

Vic, don't do anything or cut off anything because others say you should. You make you happy first. Don't be worrying about what others think. Peer pressure is the downfall of many. If she makes you happy then there is no reason to avoid it. It certainly seems to be ok for guys to be with girls much younger than they are...so why not visa versa?
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ROOFCUTTER · Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2003 7:55 am Post subject:

lets just say there is a 20 year difference. when one is 50 the other will be 70. Now who here wants to have sex with a 70 year old?? come on raise your hands.

My friend is in somewhat the same boat. I do not know what he is going to do..or not do or maybe they dont do...or maybe they still do...

Other than that love is a very strange animal that cannot be controlled.

I certainly could not say yes or no to my kids if they were asking the same question. I would hope they would have their fun and then find someone closer to their own age. Roof hopes he is not asked this question...

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i was watching Maury...(yea you know you guys watch it too)...lol..but anyways...there was an episode on "opposites attracks" or something like that..but yea...some 45 year old lady married her 13 year old sons best friend...so yea thats a big age difference...45 and a 13 year old...lol..they live like in alabama or somewhere around there... were its legal to marry at such a young age.....but what was funny was that the wife is still buying her husband yu-gi-oh cards..tee hee hee...

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