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do you think its ok to hit on or go out with yoru friends ex/gf or bf?
yes
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 37%  [ 14 ]
maybe depends
21%
 21%  [ 8 ]
no i respect my friends feelings and im loyal like that
40%
 40%  [ 15 ]
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:07 am    Post subject: Friend Loyalty poll Reply with quote

well what do you guys think... this happend to me... and i say no.. its not ok
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Still hurts doesn't it?
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd say it's okay if he asked you first, or it's very obvious that you don't intend to get back together. As long as you aren't planning to get back together some how, then she's free game for everyone and everything.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me and my best friends always had the understanding that you didn't go out with someone else's current or ex.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just do it and then move from the knife blows he sends at ya.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 1:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

FragFailure wrote:
Me and my best friends always had the understanding that you didn't go out with someone else's current or ex.



I think this is the GOLDEN RULE that is understood by brothers and REAL friends!!!!
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 2:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Theoretically speaking I might, depends on the circumstance.

And for anyone who wants to hit on my Ex's, go right ahead, but don't say I didn't warn you about them.

And for people who are hitting on my girlfriend, I'd f*ck them up fast, smash their car, burn down their house, and erase their seed from the face of the earth. I'd seriously maim someone and I'm not kidding.

Which reminds me of a story where I caught one of my exes (she was my girlfriend at the time) cheating on me with some other dyke looking chick. I'm not about to beat up a chick, but I knew she didn't have any money, so at night I found her car and smashed in the rear window in with this chunk of cement from a crumbling curb that I dislodged by kicking with my steel toe boot. It was one of those shitty little Geo Metros or something hatchback and busted up.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OMFG this is pissing me soo much....see i didnt want julie to smoke when she was going out with me.. i dislike people who smoke...i hated her when she smoked...

i just found out.. that she went off ( while we were going out) to her ex'es house (ben.. who she lost it with) and smoked weed with him.. every week.. and with some guy in upland.....all behind my back...im sooo.. ****ing pissed...

iono what i will do.. i want to spit on her face.. and tell her off... and then F her over royally by telling her mom about it...

iono if i should or shouldnt.. buts thats soo F'ed that she did that.... #Fist #Fist
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Secret Agent Man wrote:
OMFG this is pissing me soo much....see i didnt want julie to smoke when she was going out with me.. i dislike people who smoke...i hated her when she smoked...

i just found out.. that she went off ( while we were going out) to her ex'es house (ben.. who she lost it with) and smoked weed with him.. every week.. and with some guy in upland.....all behind my back...im sooo.. ****ing pissed...

iono what i will do.. i want to spit on her face.. and tell her off... and then F her over royally by telling her mom about it...

iono if i should or shouldnt.. buts thats soo F'ed that she did that.... #Fist #Fist


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Secret Agent Man wrote:
OMFG this is pissing me soo much....see i didnt want julie to smoke when she was going out with me.. i dislike people who smoke...i hated her when she smoked...

i just found out.. that she went off ( while we were going out) to her ex'es house (ben.. who she lost it with) and smoked weed with him.. every week.. and with some guy in upland.....all behind my back...im sooo.. ****ing pissed...

iono what i will do.. i want to spit on her face.. and tell her off... and then F her over royally by telling her mom about it...

iono if i should or shouldnt.. buts thats soo F'ed that she did that.... #Fist #Fist



Yeah a woman who smokes is a major turn off for me, let alone do drugs with ex'es behind your back. If you got along good with her mother then diffinently tell her, she will be sympathic for you and go get her rolling pin.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 7:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It sounds to me like you need to walk away and just let it go. You were going out with someone that you shouldn't have, simple as that. Move on. As for the friend and the ex thing I think YPAWOM hit it on the head pretty good, except for the whole window bashing thing which was hilarious BTW.

YourPowersAreWeakOldMan wrote:
Theoretically speaking I might, depends on the circumstance.

And for anyone who wants to hit on my Ex's, go right ahead, but don't say I didn't warn you about them.

And for people who are hitting on my girlfriend, I'd f*ck them up fast, smash their car, burn down their house, and erase their seed from the face of the earth. I'd seriously maim someone and I'm not kidding.


Who cares if your friends date your ex, unless it started when you were still going out. Stealing a girlfriend is just wrong. However if you and your friend spend a lot of time together than I don't think it is appropriate for your friend to even consider it seeing as how you would have to see the ex all the time. This whole thing seems a bit touchy IMHO.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 10:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

to tell yo the truth.. i slept on on.. and i probly wont tell the mom.. that mom really likes me still adn trusts me still but...iono i dont feel likes its me that should tell her...

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FragFailure wrote:
Me and my best friends always had the understanding that you didn't go out with someone else's current or ex.



I think this is the GOLDEN RULE that is understood by brothers and REAL friends!!!!




that is a golden rule to me... i dont think its right to hit on yoru friends ex.. even if they broke up that day... its not right to me...even if they been broken up for 3 years.. i wouldnt still do it...its this loyalty thing... a trust that you should have between friends...if your friend doesnt give a **** about that.. then.. A he has no morals at all and would screw any one over for his own happieness..or B then hes not your friend at all...

thats how i see it ... imho[/quote]
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 10:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pornstar wrote:
FragFailure wrote:
Me and my best friends always had the understanding that you didn't go out with someone else's current or ex.



I think this is the GOLDEN RULE that is understood by brothers and REAL friends!!!!



Agreed, it should go without saying.

Dude I had this EXACT same thing happen to me in high school, I finally just said the hell with it and after a while I forgot about it and moved on and now im a better person for it.
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 11:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i think it depends,
a) if you were still going out with her when he started, kick his ass (or pummel him, bwahaha)
b)if it's really soon after you broke up and she's on the rebound, pummel him!!

If it's been enough time though and you've both moved on I don't see anything wrong with it. Of course it also depends on how close of friends you are....
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