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-=ITS=-GaladerieL[Vegas]
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 Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2003 9:50 am Post subject: |
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| greetings CJP and nice to see u again!! pm me anytime or email me at time u feel like it!! hope to frag,chomp and have fun with u soon when ur new computer is up and running!! |
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`RaphX
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| Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2003 10:21 am Post subject: |
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| SpeCies wrote: | Did not plan on posting! But you my friend need a reality check! Don't state crap like that until you think about all the thing's in life some take for granted. What may seem to be bad rightnow to you others have it worse. You need your ass kicked dude for even stating that comment. If it's your way of reachingout for help Email me and I will enlighten you if you want too compare lives since I've been there, thought about it and I found out that life is better when your breathing and sharing it with the people who you love and care about you.
Besides, don't you give two shifts about what that would do to your Mom and Father and Brother ? Kind of selfish there don't you think .... Use your drawings to release what's bothering you guy, you would be amazed on what creativity will be inspired by ones inner emotions. Art with expression has to grow from something you know  as far as the motivation behind it anyway! |
Sorry, Speices, but that is not right. My sister killed herself in summer of 2001, and in no way do my mother and I feel she was selfish for doing so, in spite of the pain and the hurt that we will feel for the rest of our lives because of it. It turned out that my sister had been thinking about it for several months, but that we missed the signs that we now see with hindsight.
Of course there are folk who have things a lot worse, but when one is at a certain age, emotions are running high, and emotions & irrationality can get the better of them. I even thought about it myself during primary and high school, but I was just lucky.
Short of being selfish, or "the coward's way out", it took a lot of guts to do what my sister did, and that applies to the others I have read about here.
Anyway, CJP, I'm sorry that you ever felt the way you did, and I'm really happy for you that you realise there is a future ahead of you to be grasped. You will look back to this week, and it will be a low point, from which you have pulled yourself up and continued with the rest of your life.
May peace be with you, and onwards and upwards we go  |
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KopiKat
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| Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2003 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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Hey CJP, I am too really sad to hear it. All of what every one else has said to you is 100% true, and I am glad that you have the will to carry on. I have known many who are like you, who have before been depressed. Its hard on me as well as you. Trust me though, there is always something to be gained. I wrote a poem a while back that I think may help you.
The Optimist
Some believe, Hopes are dashed on the rocks of life.
Others say, how can we endure such strife,
when we do not know the joy of life?
And to them I reply:
The joy of life is winning the right say,
I had hope every day.
And those who ask me, what do you live for when,
your day has come and all is done?
What do you live for then?
This is the answer to them I say,
If I live for that one day of fame,
which no one thought I would attain,
and I seize the moment that makes my name,
and I accomplish the goals that I ordained,
then what I lived for,
was the life that I have gained.
When those who questioned me retire to their beds,
the image of happiness will fill their heads,
because optimism is second nature,
you must only lend it time to mature.
Optimism delights the wisest and the best.
No one can resist it,
not even the greatest pessimist.
-KK
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bobins
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| Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2003 7:06 pm Post subject: |
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CJP, thins maybe bad rite now... i've recently gone through tough times myself... a friend went through wiv the thoughts you've been havin.. and it hit all of uz im our school really really hard... and i've had alot of other things pilling up.. my parents look on the verge of splitting.. and have been for some time.. i got really really depressed over the past few weeks..
the reason im sayin this is cos as what happened to caffine.. things have started to pick back up in my life... and i've started feelin better abuot myself.... and you will to... i konw from personal experience how hard some thins n times can get.. but its always best to stick in there.. just think of the good thins you've got.. and most of all take time out from your worries n troubles to enjoy yourself as much as you can through these time's... try n talk to ppl. it helps i know.
i really hope things start to pick up for you.
and kk thas a really really good poem.. every time i read it... its.. its ... u know.. ta for postin it.
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