Advice for You

KopiKat · Registered User Joined: 15 May 2002 Posts: 923

Honestly folks what jack needs right now isn't repremanding. He knows what he has done is wrong, and he has already shown us and himself that it wasn't premeditated or malicious, it was just a mistake, and he wants to try to make it right again.

What jack needs now more than ever is our SUPPORT, and our friendship. He needs to know that we are his friends, and that we're here to help.

Jack what you're going through isn't easy for anyone, but just remember one thing: you are young, and young people make mistakes. Hell so am I and i'm constantly making mistakes, but the great thing is, because we are so young, we can recover from them, and most importantly we can learn from them. Use this as a learning experience. No reason to let this destroy your life, it's best that you do what you can to make it right, and then move on with your life. The faithfull man falls 7 times, and gets back up 7 more. Have faith in yourself, and realise that this is just another learning experience for you.

I believe that you're still a good person at heart, and I think you do too.

Good luck with everything Jack, i'm here for talking if you need me,

-KK
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FragFailure · Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2005 6:57 pm Post subject:

I'm saying he should be forthcoming with it. It'll be better for him in the long run and learn a valuable lesson.
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Ranger<3 · Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2005 8:05 pm Post subject:

Lhiannan_Shee · Posted: Wed Mar 02, 2005 11:48 pm Post subject:

KopiKat · Registered User Joined: 15 May 2002 Posts: 923

Oh its quite alright shee, I ain't ridiculing anybody, just makin sure everyone knows what jack needs right now is support.

-KK
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[HALO]cpt._Keyes · Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2005 9:41 am Post subject:

jack you best fess up, nothing hurts more than a truth discovered later, and if she loves you like she says she does...she will forgive, everyone makes mistakes...its the strong that are able to deal with them and move on, hey think of it like this, you now trully know how much you really care for her, it normally takes a drastic event to finally prove the feelings you have for someone, people do forgive, if you give them the chance, not telling her will onyl build up the distrust, and you begin to doubt yourself and she will notice...eventually dragging out the truth, lies will only get found out eventually, so there is no point in keeping them, they always get found..tell her now..it will lessen the hurt, rather than telling her later and she has that to worry about and how much else have you lied about?

but remember people forgive, tell her the truth...never lie... how can you continue being with someone you lied to, whats worse, you say you think she knows....thats because she probably does..and its killing her cuz she knows something up but you wont tell her, trust me i know, it sucks to no something is up and the person you trust is lying to your face and you know it. trust me save her from my fate...tell her
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