Friend Loyalty poll

GellyRoll · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 11:11 am Post subject:

Dude you did the right dision here. I would NEVER do that to my friend. Of course it would have to be a guy that asked me, but anyways. You dont no the person she could be a bitch. So you would lose a girl and your friend. Dont do it. If i was that girl i would understand.

_________________
[img=http://img429.imageshack.us/img429/4480/sidepicture4vy.jpg]

Smegma · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 11:35 am Post subject:

i think its great that people would not hit on there freinds ex`s but if push came to shove .and u u liked the ex and always wondered what it would be like and then that freaking day comes when she starts hitting on you "hard". well we all know that answer and if somebody still say no way then your probably the guy that has never j@#ked off before either

i say have at the ex`s if the ex`s want having at

just having fun guys i did it once and lost a good freind over it not worth it for a peice of ass
_________________

RIP- BlueRuler

DJ George · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 12:15 pm Post subject:

Ye second girlfrined broke up with me for one of my friends, but I got ever it, unfortunately, he has not and watches my like a hawk at all times
_________________
http://www.barbertonrhps.com - The offical Website for Barberton's West Theater Rocky Horror Picture Show in Ohio
http://russellsoundlab.com - Disk Jockeys

Secret Agent Man · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 12:55 pm Post subject:

i know i might sound likea dick... or somthing... but... if you think about it... its really going down like this
ok

before curt started to hit on julie

all he knew was everything i told him
about julie..
about how we did things..

so... he really didnt know julie at all
and he saw how julie and our relationship was going down the drain
curt is telling julie that he likes her..

but how can he.. if he only knew my side of the story.. the nly reason he likes her.. is cuz he saw how she was putting out and having CENSERD with me...
and that shes really beautiful
so.. right now hes thinking with is dick
cuz he is thinking.. hey she put out with my friend.. so she might put out with me

hes really horny.. and fr about this whoel school year.. he just wants *****

now see..hes telling julie that he likes her.. and julie is buying it.. cuz she needs to get over me
he thinks he likes her.. but like is said.. hes thinking with his dick... not with his brain

get what im saying?

how could he say that he liked her.. if he was calling her a b****, w****, s*** less then 1 month ago
before he even knew her...
and now.. since they are going out.. curt is sweet talking her..
and he knows.. that he will get down her pants now
and that julie is liking curt

and now.. julie is gonna feel like she needs CENSORD (slurp) or have CENSORD with him to keep him
and thats what curt wants
when it all comes down to it. curt just wants to CENSORD her
i know its pretty f'ed up for me saying this
and it makes me look bad
i knew him well enough.. ....that i can come up with this
and back it up
and... well i still care about julie
and i dont want her to be used like that
cuz thats f'ed
... but i wont tell her this

cuz she wont believe me
she wont believe.. me cuz 1 im her ex... 2 shes been sweet talked already.. that she wont see it.. and wont want to see it
and to tell you the truth.. if any friend of julie .. doesnt want to see her be used like that.. then they should be the one to tell her

should i share this with her..or just let it be and see her get used?
_________________
if you think thats a soldier behind you? think
agian, or my knife will be in your back.

aa, oshiete sensei-san

DJ George · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 12:58 pm Post subject:

Nearly the same story with me and my second girlfriend, I know how you feel
_________________
http://www.barbertonrhps.com - The offical Website for Barberton's West Theater Rocky Horror Picture Show in Ohio
http://russellsoundlab.com - Disk Jockeys

Mongoose_Slayer · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 12:58 pm Post subject:

he doesn't sound like much of a friend to me

YourPowersAreWeakOldMan · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 2:10 pm Post subject:

First off, as a veteran of these types of things..

Secret Agent Man....Get over it, there's something called obsession and you're acting like it's posterboy. You and this chick are over and have been over. Move along and stop trying to butt into her personal life, it makes you look like a weird ex boyfriend stalker!

If the reason friends shouldn't date a friend's ex is because the friend still loves their ex and all that crap....They need to get over it, they are an EX they are free on the market again. Stop trying to get back with them! And just leave them alone!

One of the reasons I wouldn't date a friends ex is if they had broken up on bad terms and hated eachother, because if I even brought them with me they would see eachother and it would be really weird for both of them.

Also it depends on levels of friends. Acquaintance, Casual Friend, Friend, or Inner Circle (Best) Friend.
I would do it all the way up to Best friend. At best friend I wouldn't unless they broke up on good terms and they had no emotional attatchment to eachother anymore, so they wouldn't mind. But if my friend was like "Noo duude, I still love her and I know deep down she still looves mee" I'd tell them "Dude, goddamn, Stop being such a psycho, you really need to get on with your life, and no she doesn't feel anything for you." Luckly I haven't had to do that since none of my friends get obsessed and psycho like that, when you break up, it's over.

I don't give a damn what my exes are doing right now, they could be dead or something and I wouldnt care..If my friends wanted to get with them, go right ahead.

The only thing that burns me is if they were hitting on current girlfriend, do what you want with my exes, but try to hit on my current girlfriend, and that's when they'd get beaten down.

_________________
World of Warcraft:
Bleeding Hollow PVP Server as Mortibund (undead mage)

Donald22 · Registered User Joined: 13 Jun 2003 Posts: 3

I don't know, it seems like you are jealous and that you are sad and hurt, but I don't really think you should be this upset. If you were over, or inevitably heading that direction, then what is the big deal. She was probably sad, as are you, but how can you help two people liking each other. I doubt your friend tried to |=uck you over, because that is not what anyone really wants. It sounds like this guy wants a girl, but I doubt he is just in it to use her. Just some thoughts, let me know what you think -Donald (RR Games for Life)

Bright Red Nipples · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 3:18 pm Post subject:

sharkbyte · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 3:30 pm Post subject:

MuLiShA · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 5:58 pm Post subject:

As long as the friend has no problem.

And Secret Agent Man, you are in denial. She's gotten over you, and you should do the same. It sucks that you see her doing you don't want to, but thats life. Happens all the time.
_________________
Usually my sig goes here, but who the hell needs one anyways.

sharkbyte · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 6:20 pm Post subject:

Secret Agent Man · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 7:06 pm Post subject:

...
_________________
if you think thats a soldier behind you? think
agian, or my knife will be in your back.

aa, oshiete sensei-san

Secret Agent Man · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 7:59 pm Post subject:

Potato-VS- · Posted: Fri Jun 13, 2003 8:35 pm Post subject:

I dunno... It all depends on the circumstances... If your friend and his gf broke up and then about a year or two later; note you didnt talk to your friend for that length of time (enough that you dont consider to be "friends" anymore - this happened to me recently and I came to the following conclusions); you see this girl again and find that shes attractive in someway then Id say yea its ok. Technically your not going out with your friends ex because well, as anyone would see, your not exactly friends anymore... However, if you were still friends I would say be careful... Then again if your really friends it shouldnt matter all that much but I can see what someone would take offense or something like that. If your friends then you/they should get over it - i know that me and my friend have; then again we dont talk all that much... -- but thats beside the point. Sure it would bug me and make me angry but I dont see why it shouldnt happen, after all stuff like this happens on its own who would I be to interfere in it? Especially considering that its not really any of my business what my friend and his "gf" do its solely their business. You cant control your friends... Its their choice and you may not like them becasue they make a certain choice but they still are the same person deep down that you liked enough to be friends with.